My eulogy for my mother, where I explain my journey from seeing her as merely “Mom” to seeing her as a whole, complex, lovely, independent person I was fortunate to know.
Tag: dementiaandus
A Reflection on the Necrology (and My Mom, Who’s Alive)
Jack Jose reflects on the practice of remembering the dead, and wondering what heaven looks like for those who are still alive.
Mom to the ER with back pain 8/13/21
<p class=”wp-block-paragraph”>Facebook update:</p>
<p class=”wp-block-paragraph”>Update on Mom: After almost two weeks of back pain &#8211; including a clean x-ray &#8211; her pain escalated Friday night and I took her to the ER. They saw nothing in the initial x-ray. Further tests revealed an aortic aneurysm that they believed at the time could be associated with the… Continue reading Mom to the ER with back pain 8/13/21
Mom back from rehab for her back 9/14/21
<p class=”wp-block-paragraph”>A Facebook update.</p>
<p class=”wp-block-paragraph”>Good news. After a solid month of the hospital and then rehab, it looks like Mom is set to return home to the Wellington on Thursday.</p>
<p class=”wp-block-paragraph”>In many ways the roughest part of this stretch was the past few days. I was exposed to someone with COVID and had to await… Continue reading Mom back from rehab for her back 9/14/21
Daily Resolutions for Caring for my Mom Who Has Dementia
<p class=”wp-block-paragraph”>Today I resolve to care for Mom.</p>
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<p class=”wp-block-paragraph”>I will do this by remembering that few of her thoughts and actions exist separate from her dementia, which is compounded by her pain, and her anxiety, and thus she deserves care, forgiveness, and patience even when a behavior is repeated over and over. This is… Continue reading Daily Resolutions for Caring for my Mom Who Has Dementia